Staying motivated is such a difficult task — our
emotions are constantly assaulted by negative
thoughts and anxiety about the future. Everyone
faces doubt and depression.
What separates the highly successful?
The ability to keep moving forward and to NEVER
GIVE UP
There is no simple solution for a lack of
motivation. The key is understanding your
thoughts and how they drive your emotions. By
learning how to stimulate motivating thoughts,
and to throw out the negative ones, and focus on
the task a head, you can help yourself see the
light at the end of the tunnel.
There are 3 reasons we lose motivation.
• Lack of confidence
• No Goals
• No Direction
If you don’t believe in you’re self and that you
can succeed, what’s the point in trying?
If you don’t know what you want, do you really
want anything?
If you don’t know what to do, how can you be
motivated to do it?
Ways to Boost Your Confidence.
The first motivation killer is a lack of
confidence. When this happens to me, it’s
usually because I’m focusing entirely on what I
want and neglecting what I already have. When
you only think about what you want, your mind
creates explanations for why you aren’t getting
it. This creates negative thoughts. Past
failures, bad breaks, and personal weaknesses
dominate your mind. You become jealous of your
competitors and start making excuses for why you
can’t succeed.
It might sound strange that repeating things you
already know can improve your mindset, but it’s
amazingly effective. The more negatively you
think, the more examples your mind will discover
to confirm that belief. When you truly believe
that you deserve success, your mind will
generate ways to achieve it. The best way to
bring success to yourself is to genuinely desire
to create value for the rest of the world.
Developing a Vision
The second motivation killer is a lack of a
vision. How often do you focus on what you don’t
want, rather than on a concrete goal? We
normally think in terms of fear. I’m afraid of
being poor. I’m afraid no one will respect me.
I’m afraid of being alone. The problem with this
type of thinking is that fear alone isn’t
actionable. Instead of doing something about our
fear, it feeds on itself and drains our
motivation..
By focusing your mind on a positive goal instead
of a negative thought or fear, you put your mind
to work. It straight away begins devising a plan
for success. Instead of worrying about the
future you start to do something about it. This
is the first step in motivating yourself to take
action. When know what you want, you become
motivated to take action.
Developing Direction
The final piece in the motivational jigsaw is
direction. If focus means having an ultimate
goal, direction is having a day-to-day strategy
to achieve it. A lack of direction kills
motivation because without an obvious next
action we succumb to procrastination.
The key to finding direction is identifying the
activities that lead to success. For every goal,
there are activities that pay off and those that
don’t. Make a list of all your activities and
arrange them based on results. Then make a make
an action plan that focuses on the activities
that lead to big returns.
When my motivation starts to wobble, I regain
direction by creating a plan that contains two
positive actions. The first one is a small task
I have been meaning to do, while the second is a
long-term goal. I immediately do the smaller
task. This creates positive momentum. After that
I take the first step towards achieving the
long-term goal. Doing this periodically is great
for getting out of a slump, creating positive
reinforcement, and getting long-term plans
moving.
It’s inevitable that you’ll encounter periods of
doubt, bad luck, and even the occasional
failure. If you don’t train your mind, these
minor hick ups can turn into real mental
monsters. Be on guard against the top 3
motivation killers will preserve your motivation
and propel yourself to success.
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