I Need Motivation Theories

Motivation comes as a result of having a clearly

defined goal to achieve something that you are

passionate about. I meet people week in and week

out here in Oxford that are thousands of miles

away from home studying at the university.

Oxford is world famous for turning out some

really successful people, such as presidents,

prime ministers and CEO’s of large international

companies. In fact there are probably students

studying there now that will be responsible for

massive changes and impacts to the world in

their lifetimes. One problem that I hear of from

the academics that I help in my clinic is one of

a lack of motivation and plenty of

procrastination.

A massive number of students that do come and

see me have arrived at Oxford with no clear

definition of what they want from even being

there. When asked what they will do with their

degree they say that they are not sure and when

I ask then why they are studying they tell me

that it is what their parents want. This makes

me a little concerned as how can we expect

motivation and passion to be there when we are

trying to achieve something that is someone

else’s dreams and goals for us? I really detest

the parental war cry of ‘go to university and

get good grades so that you can get a secure

job’. This is all well and good if children and

young adults are allowed to explore their own

dreams and aspirations – instead of having to do

what their parents say.

I have seen students that are just seemingly

‘lost in life’ because their parents have chosen

to decide what would be best for their child’s

life. This type of restriction is cruel and is

uncalled for. If parents wanted a puppet they

should have gone to the toy store instead of

having children. If you are a student in this

position you will understand just how this can

impact your passion and motivation.

If you are in this situation you have two

options, the first is to become more assertive

and start to explore and research the things

that you want to achieve in your life and then

start to achieve them. The second is to except

defeat and do what your parents want and get

that degree and then enter the rat race. The

choice is yours – puppet or individual – you

decide.

If you want to gain more motivation, passion and

enthusiasm then I suggest that you use hypnosis

to achieve your goals and attain the career and

lifestyle that you want to have.

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